Something bothers me just a little bit...and I am hoping that it got lost in the translation.
Why isn't it:
Quote:
Wife: I'm eating over a friends with D11 tonight. Do you want me to pick up a TV dinner from the market? I'm already there.
No thank you- I'll take care of my own dinner.
OR
Thanks for thinking of me, that would be great?
What am I missing?
We get what we give...even if it takes along time of giving to get.
I USED to ask my wife a questions and then supply her a multiple choice of answers.
I.E. Why did you do this...was it because of that or this or this other thing.
When I figured out that I was sabotaging our conversations and giving her the easy way out by providing answers for her, I stopped and our communications have really flourished.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK