Fix,

Something bothers me just a little bit...and I am hoping that it got lost in the translation.

Why isn't it:

Quote:

Wife: I'm eating over a friends with D11 tonight. Do you want me to pick up a TV dinner from the market? I'm already there.


No thank you- I'll take care of my own dinner.

OR

Thanks for thinking of me, that would be great?


What am I missing?

We get what we give...even if it takes along time of giving to get.

I USED to ask my wife a questions and then supply her a multiple choice of answers.

I.E. Why did you do this...was it because of that or this or this other thing.

When I figured out that I was sabotaging our conversations and giving her the easy way out by providing answers for her, I stopped and our communications have really flourished.



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