Heya, Farfromhome. It sounds like you are at a similar place with your spouse. It's an amazing thing, isn't it, to find that stage of getting to know each other all over again? Kindof like first dating, but better and with more challenges.
One of the most helpful things is that he know knows that R's go through cycles. We will go through phases again of power struggles and get into phases of stability where we also get into ruts. We will probably also have times when we grow distant, then come back together into a romancing phases all over again!
I just cringe when I see people on these bbs say thier partners say they still love them, but have come to the conclusion that they simply aren't "compatable". I heard the same from Wolfie not that long ago, before he understood the concept of phases and cycles in a long-term R.
