I would offer to pay for you and your kids. If she cant afford to pay for just her share then I guess she is out of luck and wont be able to join in.
I appreciate what you are saying. But I do want this to be special for D11. And having both her parents go to dinner with her would mean a lot to her and D7. So if I have to pick up the bill, it is worth it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...