I hear ya on the disappearance. I was with h 30 years and now, not a word. It's like it all didnt happen.
But, you're right about the not getting answers and this being forced on us. And you know what? There's not a freakin' thing we can do about it.
But, sitting around trying to figure it all out is cutting into our new lives.
He took so much from me, I am not giving him that, too. Uh uh, not gonna do it.
So, you are going to feel lost for awhile, and sad and angry and some other stuff, too. But there are no shortcuts here, I'm afraid. You have to go through all the steps in the grieving process to get out the other side.
So, go easy on yourself for awhile. Give your mind a rest when you can. Try to keep busy and get through the day.
