Well my friends are of both sexes. I have also reconnected with some female friends. I made it very clear to them that I am healing and would not want to be involved in any relationship. As right now I can see how easy it is to get attached. I also told one close friend that they need to keep an eye on me with that stuff. I make sure I limit my time with any of my single female friends to once every 2 to 3 weeks. I do not think of them as dates. Though one involved a hockey game and a dinner. Which was nice. If I notice that I am developing feelings then I will back it off to once a month. And if anyone steps past that boundry I will tell them that I am honouring my wedding vows. This marriage ends on one affair not two.
I used the light hearted expression. "This is how easy I can get attached right now because I am very hurt and confused. You like milk. I like ice cream. Wow we're made for each other. I think I found my new wife" Brings a simle and a laugh. I have not spoken with WAS about any relationships in my life. I did not bring it up. Felt it was personal info she did not need to know any more about.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
