I read the DR book in July. The bomb was Oct 17 '08. Even though we've been going through this for a year I guess I've only ben DBing for 3 or 4 months.
I'm not ready to give up. I decided in the beginning that love was a decision and I've made my decision. I'm just ventiing I guess.
Bunny,
I've never really followed your sitch, so forgive the uninformed question: have you communicated "I will wait as long as it takes" stance to your wife?