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4) If she's moody ask what's wrong. If she says nothing then ask if everything is okay. Get her to say yes or no. If she says she's okay then the ownership of her unhappiness falls on her not on me. If she has a problem then it's time for me to listen.


Modify: What's wrong...with what can I do to help. Just a suggestion.



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