I know EXACTLY how you feel. It's scary isn't it? Things are going the way you would hope they are (for the most part) but you have this instinct telling you to stay alert and that things could change in an instant. I think positive results over a long period of time is the only cure for this.

M 33, W 30, SD 10, D 5, S 4

Made it through the WAW, living happily together now. And I am much wiser for it!