Good point stronger. My H is notoriously a bear when working. Also late at night.
H called today to ask about details for the museum he and FIL are taking S to (yes, I said I was busy and couldn't go!). I gave him said info - briefly and to the point. H still very growly and intense sounding - brought me down after having felt good and independent all morning. Went for some exercise immediately, felt better.
There I was doing everything I was supposed to do - and H was still angry at me. Ugh.