Some people on this forum will insist your W has OM. Unless you have proof, dont let this get to you. Just because a W wants out of a marriage doesnt always mean there is someone else. Its a possibility, but not always the case.
Thanks for that advice. I was thinking of leaving this forum because that seems the standard answer with everyone. I am 99.9% sure there is no other man.
Why, because "she's just not that type of person?" I'm sorry, but that's naive. If you've confirmed that in another way, and just not shared it here, that's fine, but the reason why so many of us are warning you is because we have years of experience that you don't have yet, and it's been the case WAY more than 75% of the time.
But you don't want to seem to hear that, so I will leave you alone. I just didn't want to see you go thru the pain of getting blindsided.
