Well WAS wanted to know what I was up to that night and I just said going out to dinner with a friend. She responded by texting me that she needed her passport when I was out for dinner and then left the info for her trip to the OM for me to find on the computer. I just pretended I did not know. Then 2 nights later she talked to OM on the phone for 45 minutes. So I had to hear one side of the conversation. I walked downstairs when the conversation was over and blew up on her for the first time in my life. Told her she needed to be gone in 2 days and gave her the I am the giver of this relationship speach and that she continues to take and take. She was out in 2 days.
This was followed by me just being very angry and just reacting and reacting.

I then discovered this site and ordered the book DB and read and read and read.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!