I am in a similar struggle now, sc. My H seems to genuinely enjoy spending time with me, with the kids. Heck even without the kids, when we meet to do schedules, he always takes me to dinner first...
I am having trouble b/c I know myself well enough to know that I can be friends with H, but not "just friends", that is a hard line for me to walk at this point.
So, he basically just wanted to press the 'undo' button on the conversation? And just go on being married and act like it never happened? Hmm.........