I remember a few months ago I would have been so happy to get a call from the STBXH....now I wish he would stop calling! UGGGHHHH!
My lawyer recently sent some interrogatories to be answered for the divorce concerning both personal and business financials and such. His lawyer returned the favor and basically sent me the same questions my lawyer had made up. Mine was just a little shorter because I don't really deal with the business aspect.
Yesterday around 5:30 pm I was talking to Mr. A on my cell and STBXH called on the house phone. I saw on caller ID it was him. I thought if it is important he can leave a message. He did not. I then went to dinner with Mr. A. Around 8:00 I get text message from my DD21 telling me that her dad had called her wanting to know where I was. She lied and said she did not know...I did not tell her to do that. He told her he needed to get something from me, I'm sure it had to do with paperwork. When I got home STBXH had called the house phone around 8:45, but still no message.
My opinion is that he can leave me a message and I will gather whatever he needs and send it to him by DD21. Or he can write down what he needs and send it by DD21. He is of the stone age, he does not email. I see no reason to talk to him on phone unless it has to do with our daughters.
Am I wrong? Should I answer his calls?
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