Great news on your dad. As for Carrie K, I liked the comment...didn't say SHE was a pearl.

Saving a marriage is an incredible thing and certainly a goal to achieve. Doing it in a way that MAXIMIZES your chances of NOT being hurt again, knowing the high rate of recidivism, really counts.

Just as the LBS is told to be careful about rushing into new relationships, YOU should be careful about taking back a man who as of a few weeks ago, was willing to throw your marriage away for another woman. FEAR...is a powerful tool for the both of you. All of us know that YOU are in good shape AND a good person. NO ONE HERE can say the same about your H.

Be careful.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;