Hello Kittyfish & Sandi2!

[iwantittowork]

I couldn't agree more with my W needing her own place. But with everything else, it appears it is going to be me that will have to get the money via refinancing for my W to do so. I have some people working on that very issue for me as we speak and so far the news is promising.

I don't know how you do it BJ, I am getting more and more anxious being at home these last few days, as WAW conducts herself as a single woman in the home that I have financed.

I have been reading your updates and Jman's, and find it interesting that WAW's think we do nothing around the home, or to help with the family. I started looking objectively at it lately, and I just don't see it. I felt guilty for not being around enough to help, but then I started compiling a list in my mind, of things I am responsible for and do in the home, and care for it, and vehicles, etc, etc. I don't discount what my WAW does for the family, but to say the list looks lopsided would be an understatment.

Ironically though, now that she thinks of herself as 'single' she spends more time cleaning up the house, and while I was away had people or persons over to the house for dinner/party or something.

Anyways, I think your WAW's are 'cake eating' a bit, as I believe mine is by stalling, and or not leaving, but how can you force them out? So far as I know you can't.

I am taking the initiative by leaving myself, but making her responsible for the household bills, but who knows how that will work out, but it's a decision based on what I feel is best for me, not what WAW is doing, and I think you guys are doing the same, although I need to catchup on JMans sitch..