The hardest thing, no caring...

[LTD]

The truth will come out. As I said before, IMO it is best to prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

For example, Puppy seems to think that your wife is wandering. He thinks the same about my wife. I'm not sure that it is more than an EA, but it doesn't really matter to me. Why? Because I have already accepted that a PA is likely and have decided how I am comfortable handling it.

If you can make peace with the worst possible situation, then you know you can handle anything short of that. It's something each person has to decide for themselves (how much they can take).