New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Jornaling.

I'm here in my office reading the posts on this forum. I thought about calling my W and chat, but felt maybe it wouldn't be a good idea. So I went with my gut feeling and decided not to call. Been talking with this friend yesterday. He said that eventually I'll have to bring up the issue of R one day. He said if I am still officially married then I should at least do something about it and ask my W what's going to happen next

This friend continued on and said if my W doesn't want to re-engage then she needs to finish what she started and finalize the D proceedings. I just listened but didn't feel it to heed his advice. Maybe I've programmed myself that it's all going to be OK in the end and my W will re-engage soon.

In any case, I wonder: in my situation of 15 months of separation and D proceedings dismissed, when is it OK to bring up the R talk with my W, if I were ever to do so?

JR