Guess what I am thinking to write to him is fine? I noticed on the schedule that he let me know that the wknd of the Marine Corp marathon he will be studying instead. Hmm.
Journaling: This NC feels like I'm mirroring the behavior he shows to me. The GAL as well. Like I'm treating him the same way he treats me. Of course seeing him GAL and the silent treatment has me shaken up, but I just hope it works the same for him.
I feel like he's a different case that he really has shut me out of his life. He holds grudges a long time and when there has been a reconciliation with other family members, someone else brought them together and it was pushed under the rug. His grandparents and mom were trying to get us together but he avoids them and doesn't want to talk about it. They have since quit trying.
I know, I've got to stay with the NC for a while longer because I just started it a wk ago and haven't seen any results yet. Anyhow it'll be easy this week since he's out of the country on a business trip. I'm sticking with the only ask once too. Learning quite a bit here from others' threads.
Just thinking out loud.
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