In NY, if you don't have grounds (H doesn't) you have to get a legal separation agreement and be separated a year, then either one can file for the D. My very smart friend (L) said the key word is agreement. Did I agree? I said I didn't.
Wish I lived in New York.
Last edited by Gardener; 10/14/0901:46 PM.
Gardener
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