Well, I did make the offer this weekend, but did not clarify I only wanted her presence.
Here's where I'm at this morning. I think I need to push a little bit and see what her reaction is. My C put it as "invade her space" slightly and see how she reacts.
So, this morning, I wrote a quick note to her that said "Just a quick note to tell you I had fun on our Disney trip and to tell you how great you looked this morning. I hope you have a good day. -GIMA." I left the note on the dashboard of her car so she would fin it later today, after I left. I left notes like this for her early in our R, usually taped to a bathroom mirro or tucked in a drawer.
In response, she IM'd me and said "Thanks for the note. Hope you have a good day."
