that is wonderful T!!! it's a huge learning experience. and for us women, most the time we just want the sympathy. to show you care and that you'll make our day better, not what we should have done or what we can do.
not sure what you used to do when she would vent. glad to see you doing the things that work.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Things continue to progress nicely. Last weeks Standers gathering was extra special. I met the Bragg's of Inverse Ministries. It was a very powerful and Spirit-filled event. The Lord in His perfect way knew just what I needed as always.
We are back on the house-hunting trail. Please pray for us as this is something that we both really want. SHe has expressed that she is a bit scared and wondering if maybe we aren't ready for this next step. If you recall, I had found a house a few months ago and I nixxed the deal at the last possible second because she did not like the house. Now we have found one that we seem to be tenatively in mutual agreement on.
I shall proceed as slow as I need to in order to be sure she is comfy. I like it when she is comfortable with things. Many positives and I will be praying for more.
Prayers and offerings of much peace and love to all of you my brothers and sisters.
Make the most of that C. I have mine again next week. And it is good to see that you have a cuddly fuzzy side to you that is coming out. lol.
Many prayers are with you. Always good to proceed slowly.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I know you are really into the house idea. But remember she may be more comfortable starting out with a 6 month rental to start with.
If you offer that if she isn't totally comfortable it might show you are willing to bend a little out of consideration for her.
Just my 2 cents.
Originally Posted By: Tomato
hi all
Things continue to progress nicely. Last weeks Standers gathering was extra special. I met the Bragg's of Inverse Ministries. It was a very powerful and Spirit-filled event. The Lord in His perfect way knew just what I needed as always.
We are back on the house-hunting trail. Please pray for us as this is something that we both really want. SHe has expressed that she is a bit scared and wondering if maybe we aren't ready for this next step. If you recall, I had found a house a few months ago and I nixxed the deal at the last possible second because she did not like the house. Now we have found one that we seem to be tenatively in mutual agreement on.
I shall proceed as slow as I need to in order to be sure she is comfy. I like it when she is comfortable with things. Many positives and I will be praying for more.
Prayers and offerings of much peace and love to all of you my brothers and sisters.
Ted
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
thanks for shooting by and offering feedback. keeps me thinking in varied ways --always good.
Hope you are steadily feeling better and getting some energy back. keep warm up North there. If we are going to see flurries and what not down here then you must have your shovel/snow blower, etc all set. be well!
Just now started getting a few flakes, as I am in the "higher elevations" but I doubt they will stick.
I am doing my best to keep warm. House is around 70 degrees, which is just perfect for me.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
How in the world did the Eagles lose to the Raiders???
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."