I was wondering if anyone could chime in on my sitch. H moved out 3 weeks ago--doesnt admit to OW (no fault state) yet as she is still with her H. My 21 year old son confronted him and he admitted it to him (cried and said son just doesnt understand) and H said I probably have already guessed too. I didnt figure it out til right when he moved out but never told H. What is the DB theory on the OW with a WAH? Cant see that confronting him makes sense if he is already gone from house. He signed a 6 mo lease and I think their plan is first he leaves, then she leaves then they just happen to get together after their marriages break up. I dont want to accelerate the plan but does it just make it too easy for them? When he comes over to work on winterizing the house, it is so surreal. Do I just go on acting the same--happy, social and light and ignore the OW. ALso, we may--big if- be going for counselling briefly--I am trying to get him to go to the wOODSTCK OFFICE OF mWD for an intensive ot help with our children (grown ut angry) issues. Do I say anything before that? Advice, thoughts, appreciated from oters who have been thee.
