I agree with Hope on this one. You made the offer just last weekk and she wasn't comfortable with it.

Another way to look at it is that if you're courting her you can't ask her to sleep in your bed if you can't even hold her hand. Working on the physical contact stuff seems like the next step from where I sit.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.