Leaving my home was never an option for me. Besides the principle of the matter, I plan on holding on to this home- which I've invested many blood and tears on- for my kids. My W could care less about this place- it is as old and undesirable to her as her washed up H (me)- although I am far from looking "old" and being washed up!
I couldn't agree more with my W needing her own place. But with everything else, it appears it is going to be me that will have to get the money via refinancing for my W to do so. I have some people working on that very issue for me as we speak and so far the news is promising.
Well, looks like the warm milk is doing it's job- back to bed for me. Talk to you soon.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________