Over the Shock and GALing 6

[MrBond]

"My issue is that the script hasn't changed AT ALL in 11 months."

Okay, I'm beginning to see a trend here. Alot of this is still based off of you reacting to her. Detach now and stop engaging her. When she talks to you, keep the answers to one word answers that are in agreement to her whether you believe it or not. Let's face it, the longer you talk to her, the angrier you get. Skew the answers to what she says, but in a way that benefits you rather than her.

For example.
W: I think we should go to counseling for your anger issues."
T: You're right, I think counseling would be good for us (you're not addressing the "anger" issue).
W: I'm afraid to be with you.
T: It is a good idea to work out any problems that have come up in our marriage.
W: I never wanted to be married to you.
T: Hmmm, oh well, look are you done, I've got stuff to take care of. I'll arrange the appointment to see what works best. (Here you are not specifying her or you. but you are taking charge and controlling the sitch)

Just a thought.

Be PROactive and not REactive.

She's going to push you buttons. Well let her push. You don't have to be hanging around when she does. As hard as it is, don't show her your angry side. Step back as if you were watching this in a dream. Imagine your W as the spoiled bully in the playground. She prods you and prods you, but you stand up to her. She demands your lunch money, just shrug and be like, I'm a little short today, excuse me I gotta go to class.