"I fail to see how asking about the plans is badgering him, however, I did see the futility in talking late at night if he wasn't in the mood or knowing what he wants."
It was just the timing and the number of times you asked. For the WAS, once is enough. Besides they don't really care about the LBS.
Think of it this way...he currently has the power in the R. Imagine it like a big crown on his head. The key is to get that power away from him. How do you do that? By leaving him alone. But not for the sake of sulking or "giving him space". It's for you to enrich your life.
The next time you are with him, go out. Dress up. Put on makeup and just tell him you're going out. Don't have to tell him with whom or where. Just tell him 'bye. A couple of weeks of that and he's going to start questioning things.
The power then gets transferred to you. Get that control back. In terms of what you've tried, DB says to try things out for at least 2 weeks. Have you journaled anything?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
