You separated shortly after the baby was born? I'm just at five months and I don't really want to be married by the end of April -- my next anniversary. How have you held on so long already?
We did separate when my D was about 6 months old. Crazy how it all unfolded. Petty really. But there we were. We were never really married and I have dated some since we separated. I am sure she has too. Hard to get very close to someone else when you feel like you should be working it out with my D's mom.
The X has been a trip the entire time. We had court ordered mandatory counseling until the counselor deemed it was no longer needed. we went to eight sessions and the benefits needed to be transferred over. The X decided she no longer was going. Her atty agreed she did not have to go. Since then I had to get an atty and initially she said it would do no good to make her go to counseling bc she will not chg. I have requested to enforce the court order and go bc she is so verbally abusive I feel it is so unhealthy for all of us. I hope it is the right course of action.
