a friend of mine from back east is coming out to stay with me for awhile, maybe indefinitely. if he finds work and can help with bills and rent it might make it so i don't have to move at least before my lease is up at the end of the year. this'll be really good too because i'll have someone to do daytime stuff with, eat dinner with, won't have to scramble to have a companion on weekend nights.
not a real close friend, but we've been talking a lot lately.
so i'm finally cleaning up the house and yard, gonna put him in our old bedroom (i've been sleeping on the couch). it's a really positive step.
still have a lot of anxiety though.
got a message from W's best friend (in another state), haven't talked to her yet but she'd promised she'd call if she ever heard from W. also, W called our MC this week (he'd sent her a letter recently) to say she was fine (yeah right!) and would send him the money she owes him soon.
anyway, these may be small signs of movement. will discuss with MC on thursday.
me 30 WAW 30 M 8 yrs T 9.5 yrs
3 cats 9,6,6
W left 5/31/09 W stopped most contact 06/26/09 W filed 7/22/09 (haven't been served)