Thanks CTH for the feedback!!! I really struggle with whether to try to talk to the X or just try and avoid her all together. It is hard. Like you said, she is so disrepectful when I do talk with her, I just want to not talk to her. She has a lot to work through herself still. But it saddens me so to think how we are at this stage and have a child in the middle of it. How can they be so cruel and hard hearted? I try to be upbeat and positive and the X will suck the life out of me quick. She tries to tear me down as much as possible. what is going through thier minds?
