Hoping WAW will someday see through the fog....

[LTD]

Wearing the rings is definitely a positive sign, but you're right about not knowing what she does when she's not around. The truth is you never know what they do when you're not around, that is where the trust comes in. Unfortunately, these situations completely destroy the trust in a relationship. Although my situation isn't even close to reconciliation at this point, I imagine the when couples do reconcile the trust is the last thing to return (if it ever completely does).

Going to church together is good, too. Church is a community that supports marriage. Better to have those kind of influences than the kind that say "Do whatever you feel will make you happy".