For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[LuLu]

I think we're married to the same man! I swear the similarities are uncanny. Look at this way, he still finds you attractive and wants you. Would you rather him not want to ML to you? Isn't that funny when they just outright ask you in our sitch?

Yeah, the vengeful thing is all I kept thinking. Because really, that's not you. Also, it's probably not in the best interest of your daughter. You are exactly right. If you were truly over H, you would tell him about the trip so he could spend time with DD while you were out of town. I say meet in between and tell him last minute. Something like, oh if you're planning to spend time with DD, you'll have to go to my Mom's. I'm going to be out of town for a few days.

Keep up the 180. Don't ask about the interview, not even in a few days. He'll start acting like my H and just start giving out all sorts of details even though you don't ask.

I've got to say Court, things are different with you guys and different is good!