W, I would like it if you would return to our bed. I want you there when I roll over in the night, and I want to see you sleeping when I wake up in the morning. I will not pressure you for anything you do not want. Simply, I do not expect anything from you other than just being there.
I shortened it a bit - not like I expect you to memorize it or anything. I think fewer words sounds stronger.
Anyone else?
As far as "Is she ready?" - I'm torn. YOU are ready. And since it came up at Disney, the time is ripe. In my sitch, tho, we didn't go back to sleepig in the same bed until after a lot of other cuddling had been restored. My sitch is not your sitch, however, so the path may be different. (Sorry for the ambivalent answer.)
Last edited by Dia; 10/14/0902:59 AM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137