That's a hard one, GIMA. This is one of those cases where you have so much more data than we do. And maybe it's not about whether or not SHE's ready. Maybe it's about what YOU need.
Write the words out for us? What would you say to her? For instance, when I read 'for the time being', it triggered my pressure sensors. "Oh, sure. And just how long is 'for the time being'??! What, so you'll wait til next week before pressuring me for sex?"
Not trying to be harsh here - just showing you how that phrase might look through the WAW filter.
And I agree about not letting her see even a whiff of anger or disappointment if she says No. I would respond with a nod, and "Ok. The offer's open" and leave it at that.
Dia, no need to worry about being harsh - and I did not take it that way.
I agree I do not want to state anything about "for the time being."
I would tell her something like this: W, I want you to know that I would like it if you would return to our bed. But, I also want you to understand that I want you there when I roll over in the night and I want to see you sleeping when I wake up in the morning. I do not want you to come back to our bed for any other reason, and I will not pressure you for anything you do not want. Simply, I do not expect anything from you other than just being there.
And if she says no, I agree I cannot react in any negative way. Just say ok, the invitation is open if, and when, you are ready.
