Gotta Keep Trying 2

[Dia]

That's a hard one, GIMA. This is one of those cases where you have so much more data than we do. And maybe it's not about whether or not SHE's ready. Maybe it's about what YOU need.

Write the words out for us? What would you say to her? For instance, when I read 'for the time being', it triggered my pressure sensors. "Oh, sure. And just how long is 'for the time being'??! What, so you'll wait til next week before pressuring me for sex?"

Not trying to be harsh here - just showing you how that phrase might look through the WAW filter.

And I agree about not letting her see even a whiff of anger or disappointment if she says No. I would respond with a nod, and "Ok. The offer's open" and leave it at that.