Regarding W with OM, unless you have proof, your W is not seeing OM. It will eat you up inside if you start dwelling on it, when nothing could be going on. My W keeps asking me why we cant be friends after the divorce, is she had OM, why in the hell would I want to be friends with her?
If that's the way you feel, Brkn, why would you choose to be so cavalier about the cheating issue? If you'd go so far as to NOT BE FRIENDS with the woman you married, why WOULDN'T you do all you could to confirm the cheating issue?
I don't understand.
Puppy
Ive done as much as I could. The next step would be hiring a PI, which would be a bad idea. If there is any chance of us getting back together, then that would certainly ruin it if she found out.
Regarding not being friends with her, I cant be friends with someone who gave up on a 9 yr marriage, 14 year friendship.
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D talk-7/28/09 W Moved out-9/01/09 W wants D-9/22/09 W doesnt want D-12/1/09 W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09 W wants D-1/19/10 D Final-04/15/10
