What's with them doing that? I mowed the yard once since all this happened and offered several times after. I told him he didn't have to do it, he replied pretty adamantly, I WANT to do it. I don't fight it now. I do thank him though.
Is it their guilt? Is it them trying to keep one foot in the door, is their machismo? Strange. I'm like you, I'm thankful as well.
On a different note, I've been noticing that he's been giving me a lot of information. I don't know if it's truthful but it's different. Tonight we were talking schedules and who's got what weekend plans. He told me that he couldn't be around on Oct 30th. I replied, okay. Brief moment of silence. He pipes in, "I'm going to blah blah concert house". I reply, "Oh okay". He chimes in again, "I'm going to see so and so who's the lead singer from so and so band with a guy from work". Here's me thinking to myself <why are you telling me this> but I say to him, "Oh wow! That sounds like a lot of fun".
Interesting huh?
On another note, he made mention the other day about how he never knows what I'm doing because I'm so secretive. I just smiled. Haha.
Me 37 H 41 2-dd's (2,3) T-14 M-10 D-Day 6/18/09 (MOW ended their brief "love" affair a few weeks later) Separated- 7/3/09