I think this was a good response, Serenity. Come on, does he think he can D by text? Get real.
I did something similar to my H. In NY, if you don't have grounds (H doesn't) you have to get a legal separation agreement and be separated a year, then either one can file for the D. My very smart friend (L) said the key word is agreement. Did I agree? I said I didn't. So, he said to call him when I do agree that we should go this route.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.