Regarding W with OM, unless you have proof, your W is not seeing OM. It will eat you up inside if you start dwelling on it, when nothing could be going on. My W keeps asking me why we cant be friends after the divorce, is she had OM, why in the hell would I want to be friends with her?
If that's the way you feel, Brkn, why would you choose to be so cavalier about the cheating issue? If you'd go so far as to NOT BE FRIENDS with the woman you married, why WOULDN'T you do all you could to confirm the cheating issue?
