Was the sub S and H were going to go visit the S.S. Pampanito (sub anchored at Fisherman's Wharf?) If so, it is a fun tour. Done it several times with my sons. Definitely a guy thing.
Good feedback from Stronger and the others. Not justifying H's behavior towards you but given his current condition I can see why he was snapping at you- to him, you probably came across as badgering him. When you have conversations with him about anything, try to follow a rule of "once and done". In other words, limit him having to repeat himself or having the two of you rehashing things more than once in conversations. When you are where he is at, these are the types of things that you have a low tolerance for. (Speaking from experience and I know you probably recognize.)
Another thing to keep in mind is to follow the KISS principle (Keep It Simple Stupid) in your dealings with your H. Don't make anything overly complicated. If you come to your H with a problem, try to have a couple of proposed solutions for him to consider.
Just a couple of thoughts to consider. Gotta run. I'll catch up with you later.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
