Let it go... he may or may not have sent you a text... we all know that sometimes these things go through and sometimes not. And sometimes A say they do things they don't do - but just imagine they do and say it is so. HUH?!

You should know by now that he just wants to rattle you b/c he can. once he learns that it doesn't affect you - he will give it up. I had to do that with my H for awhile and it was a god send to find something so predictable.

I also read a lot of spiritual material and recently been reminded that often people are put in our lives to help us decide whether to grow or not. If we do so, then they either change and remain a part of our lives or they dont'. Think about it. Exh has moved you closer to your faith... that is a good thing. Let it move you forward and either put distance between you or watch him change.

Did you find out what is going on with your daughter?


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11