I know what your W is doing is horrible, okay? But, what I meant in the last post was that man I told you about....acted too quickly and before he knew enough about "how" to do things correctly. Sometimes, we don't get everything said in a post or two, so don't be so quick to act upon something this serious. You have to weigh every action and think about the outcome and how it would affect everyone.....not just you or not just her. I'm not saying "what" you need to do about exposing her, but I am telling you not to go tell EVERYONE b/c that is vendictive and you will come out being the bad guy. You have to take these matters more slowly or people will think you are trying to be mean and hurtful and might not believe what you tell them. One of our members has a saying that you need to remember....."strength and honor". Also, remember that she is somebody's daughter, and somebody's step-mother. Just be careful.

Another thing I want to warn you about is sending emails and TM when you are acting out of emotion. People rarely do the right thing when their thoughts are contolled with emotions. Wait at least a day or two before you send a message to her. Run it past the board here to see what the members think about it and may help you with the wording, etc.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!