Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
Every time you remind her that you are "good", she will read that you believe she is "bad".


So how can one be kind and lovingly detached without projecting good vs. bad? I think it's just doing it without saying it. Does that make sense?

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Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man