Thanks to you all...After calming myself, I have come to the conclusion that it is apparent he isn't in his right mind - I mean I am a nice person - To nice sometimes however to actually ask me for guidance in destroying our marriage? No can do buckaroo...

I waited to answer then sent the following -

"I understand that you feel you need to do certain things based on how you are living your life right now. I don't agree with it and I hope you understand that I will not help you in any way end what we took so long to build. You do what you feel you need to do and I will continue to do what I feel I need to do"

Never got a response however I was happy with my response...

His Mom told me he is insane...Still looking for justification to continue what he is doing...Time for me to stop getting on my fence and move forward completely...He is in my prayers and our marriage is in God's hands.

His text word for word -
"I am done so I guess we are done...Tell me what you need me to do." ( I didn't see the "guess" in there until my MIL pointed it out - Not sure if it means anything anyway)

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~