Feel free to vent, this is a better venue for you to vent in than in the home with the W. Do the methods work? For some yes, for me no, but my WAXW was in a different world, and nothing would have helped. Was it worth it to try? Yes, I know that I did what I could, and I can say that I will have no regrets that I should have done.....(insert whatever here). Can I say that I came out on top because of the methods? Yes, I am a better person, a better father, and I have 2 awesome kids living under my roof with me. Take what you want from all of this, but I do believe that if you want to be in your bedroom, that is a fight worth having. Will the W be pissed? Most likely. Will you have your dignity back because of it? YES!