I will be avoiding contact. Not out of respect or to avoid saying something wrong or even to give her space. I just DO NOT want to talk to her anymore. I have no affection for this person she is now. It seems she is repressing a lot of feelings and will likely come out of this depression or whatever it is. But I can't be friends with her right now.
Good for you. You will actually feel better the less you see her and talk to her. I won't have to see my W until Halloween most likely. I feel better every day. I feel like I've been hiking for 13 years with bricks in my backpack and now the backpack is empty.
Good luck.
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