Need a pick me up

[ClingingToHope]

Are you sure you are done with yours? Sounds like there is still some fire in you...

I am not done with my M. My W says she's done with the M. I have two wonderful daughters who don't understand why we aren't at least giving the M one last shot and I'm mystified as well.

I fully expect to be divorced by our anniversary in April. In fact, I've been researching ways to keep the costs down so she can afford it -- she says she would have filed by now if she had the $1,200 retainer.

She still believes love is "a feeling" and not a commitment and that since she doesn't feel anything, it's time to move on.

I could drag things out forever, but where does that get me? Infinite more months in limboland waiting for her to come back?

I'm jealous of so many on the boards because they write about how their W's and H's waffle and change their minds -- one day they are sure, the next they are not. Mine only has certainty in her voice and her eyes. It's taken me five months and four rebuffs of counseling, church groups, etc. to get the hint.

Really, my only chance is to move on and thrive in life and let her sort out all of her little issues. I've admitted my faults and made my peace with it. This is the path she chooses and if you love someone you set them free.

That could be a Greeting Card couldn't it.