I have been here before. Same user name howver & a completely different perspective.
Undrdg, I think the OM pursued me b/c his W of 18 yrs had an affair & eventually left. Maybe he needed some type of validation??
My H actually never knew & wouldn't have if I hadn't told him....but I had to. it killed me to see him killing himself & taking in all the blame for our separation which could have & should have been easily resolved.
He is also my best friend in the world.
Distracted 1978 Me - 30 H - 28 D - 13, 8, 7 S - 21 months SS - 6
My Bomb to him 10/26/2008 Separated (physically) 03/15/2009 Filed for legal separation 10/01/2009
