Things have improved on a lot of fronts. She's not going out like she used to, she's not constantly angry, etc. She's still not happy though. I have been identified as the culpret (sp?).
Still very frustrating though. I really wish she would leave for a while. I just wish she wasn't planning on buying a place.
W called a little bit ago to tell me S got in trouble for talking in school today. S was concerned that W was upset. W turned it into some deep seeded 'issue' like she does with everything anymore. It's all aout how her feelings shouldn't be so important to her. He should be more concerned with his own feelings blah, blah, blah. Why the F can't it just be that a little boy got in trouble and doesn want Mom to be upset with him? Why does everything need to be treated as it's some end of the world psychological issue?
I told her that I thought it was pretty normal for a kid to be concerned when Mom is disappointed. She blew me off and didn't even acknowledge that she heard me so I restated my point in a different way. She got pissed. Once again I am trying to control her into thinking my way.
I can't deal with this insanity any more. There's always drama and deep issues to blame for everything. Control and dependency are at the root of everything. The only 'healthy' people are completely self-centered. If other people matter than you are 'sick.'
WTF?
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
