Past Limbo: Wife officially wants divorce

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I don't disagree with you. Even Keeled. I am the only one keeping the even Keel. That is a great question as to why is she waiting. I don't know. Make it easier on the kids, give them more time to adjust? Every day I give. I give a piece of me in dealing with her MLC. Our sons are giving a piece of themselves in dealing with her MLC. I did consult an attorney today. I am in no rush either believe me.

I am not expecting her to act differently right now. It has been six months and her behavior has gotten progressivly worse over this time. My hope would have been that it would have evened out by now. All the changes I have made that she wanted me to make are actually backfiring a bit. I like them so I will keep doing them. It is now a contest for her when the kids want to do their homework with me not her. She will say daddy is smarter go to him. When I cook and the kids say its great, daddy is a better cook than me. When I managing the kids sports schedules and telling her where they need to be. She says daddy is taking over my role so I can focus on making something of myself for you kids. He had his time, now it is my time.

So you are damned if you do, damned if you don't...

Anyway--I hear you. Trying everyday to keep putting one foot in front of the other....