You're right. I'm sure I have probably pressured him a lot the last 2 weeks. It's not all about me now & what I want.... I would just really like to move forward... Our 5 year anniversary is Friday & I'd really like to spend it with my H!
Then ask. It doesn't have to be a date in the serious, romantic sense. It could be a day in the park with the kids. It could be as simple as a long phone conversation. Send a simple card that doesn't say anniversary (it could, but might be overwhelming). Maybe a dinner at home. I would say that any fairly neutral activity that doesn't pressure him too much is good.
He may say no, but sometimes the asking is enough to show that you are making an effort.
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)
